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millionaire teen says it's easy to make money
Although the media circus is being corrupted by boastful teens who exclaim its easy to make money, it's even easier to loose money. Yet there is power in paying attention, we can learn from the youth constructing the framework towards a financially independent society, and affiliate ourselves with their networks ,contacts, and partners to successfully optimize our site, and produce refreshed tools for business.
How to handle being in a Relationship with an age difference
Age aint nothing but a number. But experience is important in any relationship.I'm not talking sexual experience, emotional experience. If you date someone from an older generation, or you're seeing someone from a younger generation, there are key things to look out for as you would in any relationship.
Are they proud to be in a committed relationship with you? Does the age thing make them blush with shame, are you being used as a trophy and to combat their fear of aging, or are you just so irresistible to hang with they couldn't let this one get away?
When they bump into your friends, or you bump into theirs, do they respectfully try and ease you into their circle, or would they rather you two weren't seen in public together?
How about who they are around family, do they constantly patronise you because your younger or criticise you because your older?
Are you natural together, do you have things in common?
Are you happy when your in the presence of this person, more importantly are you happy when your on your own?
These are factors to consider.
The truth about success
I realise now after much trial and error that the truth about success, is not the candy they feed you in the adverts, or the words that lick nicely across the page in an autobiography. Success can be consistency, hope when it bites, hard work even though everyone else is telling you, or even showing you how well their progressing, which indirectly makes you feel like your not moving forward at all. I used to think success was powerful verbs, words that showed how mighty and stealthy i could be. Sentences that made me seem fearless, information that no one else had the patience to research. How success now? There's different variations to it. Yet the journey towards success, is the hard work you don't see. Those tears of frustration, and the sobs of disappointment, as you try and fail so much you wonder if anything will ever come of it. In success, there is no way around it. You have to fail, but you don't always have to fail gracefully. You have to loose, until your consistently looking for other avenues to validate that piercing vision which only you can see. No one else is supposed to see it, don't kid yourself that their supposed to get it, and overcompromise. It's your dream, you fight for it. You suck in your stomach and aquare up your shoulders when someone tells you about how perfect their life is. You swallow hard when someone who took a completely different route is driving past you in a nice new car. Success is your fight, how to be successful will not be an easy thing for you to figure out. Yet push we must. No matter how many people we feel we have let down, no matter how many people quit on us. You must never quit on yourself.
bitesized
Bitesized people
small sized dreams
we count
backwards
blowing steam
the noose is tied
it leaps the neck
like a fist in a glove
my throat is kept
Such different
selves am i?
nestled yet
thick as foam
On these streets i roam
To count
Scattered pieces
and souls released
Eat my think
Give me fuel
to fight these years
give me strength to
cleanse these tears
all the Islands
weep for me
all my dreams
they creep with me
yet brain still
sings
a lullabye song
A pain familiar
may not feel
wrong
Yet i dig the graves
of muddied floors
wipe the failed
attempt before
That whithered loss
Those scattered leams
Im here because
I eat my think
Majestic and Glorious:Lauryn hill
I just saw an interview with Lauryn Hill in relation to reebok, and it broke my heart. It looked like the industry has literally sapped the life out of her, and a lot of that intelligent confidence is gone. So i want to remember and celebrate the real Lauryn Hill, Timeless, and majestic. hERE IS THE GLORIOUS lAURYN hILL.
Shadows kiss
A shadows kiss
The blink and i
We solemn wait
By oceans cry
Yearning for
a kite that flew
You took from
me what belonged to you
and yet i mourn
i ache and beg
i climb the walls
on window ledge
waiting for my self
to fall
I start with limbs
Then begin
to crawl
How to get over being used
This morning i was thinking about the concept of users. Some people think it's cute to use other people, it's business savvy, it's being smart, it's being sharp or strategic. All interesting words to cover up the fact, it's just being a user. How about the person whose getting used? I've had a few people intimately confide in me about how amused they were at playing the user, how they can manipulate others. They feel like it gives them the upper hand, and a sense of superiority. I don't agree. Sometimes i combat their argument and their neatly stitched justifications. That the world is full of users, opportunist, gold diggers. Some have even said they'd rather be a user, than be used. There's no 3rd option. Simply put, i'd rather just be happy. Not have to be a user, Not be used. I often tell this story because it had at the time such a dramatic impact in my life. I once had a friend who suffered from mental health problems, and was exceptional at hiding this from the outside world. I was used as her counsellor, someone to confide in because she was terrified of the world seeing a vulnerable side to her. Obviously you don't tell, everyone you meet 'hey i'm hearing voices, and talking to someone through a radio.' I was there, and remained there for her for 3 years. Yet a resentment and a jealousy build up in her.Behind the smile, and the laughter, there was a hatred that she hid from me,until one day she literally exploded and viciousy attacked me in the street.It was one of those friendships where it was fine so long as i was invisible to the opposite sex,until her close friends started to like me, and want to hang out at my house. It was fine so long as i wasn't trying to be successful and achieve goals, i was fine so long as there was no one else to go to clubs, parties with,and in the case of a selfish needy ex boyfriend. I was fine so long as there was no one else.
How do you get over users? Forgive yourself, time is a great healer. Allow people to earn your respect, permit time for people to reveal themselves. Dont become paranoid and alienate yourself from everyone. Build your self confidence, build a mindset of happiness with boundaries, and the right people will be drawn to you.
Friday, 4 September 2015
Angel sigh
Love me still
Paperclip heart
We're all unwinding
From the start
We fight and rip
At flesh that's torn
The tears in our eyes
Remain stillborn
Into the mist
We.crave for
Graffiti to desist
Alcohol feet
And battered toes
Trembling fingers
And open nose
We cardiac arrest
Such piece
You see in tomb like books
A prayer of crime
Repeats the book
And how the angels sigh
Oh how the angels sigh
out of sight
I'd blink twice
The air without
The spices of drama
A yearning for karma
The purring thoughts
Of hungry flesh
Dripping with poison
Maggot skin still
Broken leg on water
Ocean without fish
I'd grapple for Sun
From pillows of white
Because twice as much
Drama
Is out of sight
Ice diamond
Ice diamond
You shine
So blue
This chaos world
It crackled you
The storm inside
It captures wake
A slave to our dreams
And our old mistakes
Yet once
When strobe light
Flashes still,
The pain
We draw
We weep
At will
Whether dawn
Empties to night
Where shadows
Roam
We find our light
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