The pain of being Hopelessly in love

Love letters can be painful;
each pen stroke un kind
I step back
wanting time to rewind
In love with shadows;
Tears in the dark;
Loosing your spirit;
Loosing your spark
And here i sit
Pain at my side
These emotions
You try and hide
Pain like acid;
Fills your veins
Turn your thoughts
and your brain to mud
Heartbroken
Scribbling stupid
words after dark
I was in love
I am in love
with a guy
Who hates everything about me.....
Life is funny
 love letters
with a painful pen;
......and then
........i remember the pain of being hopelessly in love

When someone turns on you

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The surprise when someone turns on you can be devastating. It can be hurtful, painful, it can break your heart. You can move on with swift feet, no matter how much the arrow hits the chest. Three things are guaranteed In life. You live, you die, you get disappointed or heartbroken. When someone turns on you, it's informing you, they are doing you the greatest favour of all time, they are telling you exactly what they are and showing you. Why they may not actually be the right perso for you. .They would waste your time. They would damage your hopes, you could be laughing and happy with someone better, someone made of stronger stuff, someone who you could experience real love with.  Someone who would be joyful of your happiness, and celebrate alongside you. Even if they were scared of being left behind, they would take action and build themselves up rather than tearing those around them down. Happiness is so important. Hold unto yours with everything you have.

How to stop beating up on yourself

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In this lifetime you will make mistakes. Mistakes that embarrass you, mistakes that damage your name, reputation, and sometimes even friendships and those we love. Lessons are always painful, but we need to learn them. We need to discover the most important thing of all, a bounce back mentality. Taking responsibility after you've made a mistake. Yet still claiming your victory. It's easy to beat yourself up constantly recycling the old measures and bad choices of the past. You did them. It's done now. It's time to move on. It's time to just be free of wounds that continue to chorus and persecute you. Yet when you step out into the street, every face you see, everywhere you go, there will be people that have made the same mistakes as you. Some have made even worse, some just keep making mistakes over and over and over again.

In life we come across people who judge others harshly. They live in immaculate glass houses and they don't throw stones, but boulders. That adds to us judging ourselves so intensely, determined to be perfect creatures. There is no such thing as a perfect person. Perfect people do not exist. Infact our flaws make us interesting. Our mistakes give us a story to tell. Stop beating up on yourself, you dont deserve it.

Establishing your ideals

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Ideals are such beautiful things. We dream of the holidays we'll go on , the cars we'll drive, the houses we'll live in. Coulds instead of shoulds. For our ideals to be realised it takes hard work. Hard work not glory work. Hard work is the work you get on with privately. Work that doesn't need a voice box. When I was younger even sometimes at present, I think the more you talk about it, whistle and sing; the more it gets accomplished. Here's a painful reality, talking isn't doing. Nobody is going to hit that goal, and do the work for you. The universe is testing us, she wants to see wether were all show and no go. If you are, or you have been. It's time to make a change. Then again, everybody in life has been a hypocrite. We talk out of our own excitement. Talking consistently about something, doing nothing about it, will ensure that nothing gets done. Commitment is realising that whilst your gruelling away you wont get that pat on the back. Sometimes you may be struggling on a product, and find that your being called a looser, being put down, made to feel small, inadequate, inferior. Yet in your heart you know that you are pushing and striving away. One day, that work will come to fruition. That hard work you put in that nobody saw, nobody respected, nobody got, will work out, and you will be filled with pride because you accomplished something spectacular.

How to be great

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Greatness comes from within. It's all the positive things we are that we put into action and use to help those around us. Great people shift the tide, they make big changes, and power small dynamic. They are gutsy as hell, take risks that dont always pan out, believe in themselves they do it because it's do or die. They are learning, some lessons are more painful than others, but learn them we must. Strength comes from within. It comes from having the courage to understand not everything in our life is guaranteed.  We want a better future, not just for themselves but for the people around Us. Knowledge is power, wisdom, experience. Use your life lessons and they will take you far. Progress, growth, pain, change, come hand in hand. Greatness is in all of us, in the toughest times is when it is required of us to tap into a higher power.