Help through happiness

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Let the happiness flow and fight to let the negativity go. If you are in the wrong place in your life, search dastardly for an exit. We deserve to be happy, life is tough enough without rotting in a place your not supposed to be just to keep others around you happy. It may take intensive hard work, attempting to accomplish the impossible. Impossible things happen all the time, dig deep for that inner core within yourself, the one that's interested in trying everything to make the change they want happen. Progress takes time, it takes work. It's all the little steps that people wont congratulate you for, hell, it's the things they wont even see. Find a way to be happy within yourself, and celebrate the little things you do because people may not know. That's okay. It's okay that they dont know. It's okay that they don't get how funny you are, likable, lovable, intelligent,flamboyant, they don't need to know, because in life there are some people who wont reap the benefits of your gift. Maybe your a good listener, have a generous heart, are kind and loving, be that for yourself,

Moving on from heartbreak in the new year

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In this new year learn a valuable lesson. Some people are off limits. It's not because their too good for you, but because simply put your too good for them. You may have pursued someone you thought had a good character, only to have the shades drawn in and the light shine through. They may have hurt you in the past, and your friends and family have a tough time wondering why you would even consider attempting to build a friendship. No worry, it's human nature. We often cling to what we feel is familiar. If someone provided us with love, or simply kind affectations when we felt absolutely worthless, lonely, hurt or confused, we remember them for that alone. Sometimes even if they've raked a stake through your heart, it's those moments that you remember. In this new year learn a timeless lesson we often forget to teach ourselves, you will always have you. No matter who lets you down, disappoints you, shocks and shames your heart, you will always have you. Appreciate yourself. Don't get brain washed with this myth that spending time on your own is all about loneliness. In privacy we have healing, self growth, a vision for success. You are a beautiful butterfly neatly encombassed in the soft cotton of a cocoon. Write down those New Years Resolutions, make them and stick to them. This is your future, your life, your time, if wasted could belong to someone else. Claim it.

It's an opportunity to make new friends, find a new love, but most importantly, love yourself.