Elasticity

He said he loved you
So he took you
There,
A dance with Gypsies
A summoning
of Gods
War Gods
Sea Gods
Sky and Sun
He exploded into
A million fireworks
All over your bosom
Tainting you
With his cells
He said
He loved you
So he took you
There
Beyond The moist
Past Elasticity

Hot sex and our ten most popular locations

So red ebony has taken a moment to be slightly naughty and think of the hottest places i would love to have 'creative activity' in. Translation? sex. Something happened to come across my screen, yep, i happened to stumble upon it. A man and a woman getting down right 'colourful' in a cage. That is so delicious. Here are my list of top ten places people love to be 'a genius' in.
1) An elevator

2) On a tour bus

3)On an Airplane

4)In a toilet

5) In a cage

6)In a car/bus/van
7)In the bedroom
8)In the park
9) In the bedroom
10) In the workplace

As if you didn't know

The rider

The scent of sex in the air, strong pungent. Isobelle had gotten her rider, him. Her canvas of long toffee skin, lay upright against the red brick walls. Back firmly positioned against the slick leather of a rustic bike. Brown eyes wide with hunger, sometimes she reminded him of a leopard or a jungle cat, predatory and domineering. The silk was unbuttoned exposing the rise of succulent breasts, his mouth cocooned each bud refusing to be a starving man any longer. The throb of an erection like a sword pushed through the web of material.They moaned into each others ear drums, her nibbling on his lobe, before lowering some kisses to the nectar that would flow from an already prepared instrument. Reno Davis leaned over Selena Moore thrusting hard and deep, feeling her breath like a fan as he picked up momentum. The rhythm of two bodies, in sync, riding into oblivion. " Please," she pleaded as his thick arms lifted slender legs higher probing deeper, encompassing everything. For inhis hub of metals and spanners, inside her was another home  which he belonged too.

Dark and Delicious: How to be confident within your own skin

image by Kiratheartist

There is a huge debate about how dark skinned people are treated in comparison to their fairer skinned counter parts in ethnic communities. From being called things like blique, which is an insult used in the black community to say your as black as charcoal, to being told you would be more attractive if you were a fairer skinned complexion, some darker skinned people argue that they get given an unfair rap. As though being dark is bad in some way. Are dark skin is negative. Here is my argument in every corner of the world you will find ignorant jealous people, the thing about envy is it can often be rationalised. Someone can convince you that there's something wrong with you, a quality,  a skill, a character, an asset, because they secretly want it. If they have people around them who imitate what they do and what they say, if your naieve enough you can be convinced that there's something wrong with you and allow other people to steal the joy from your life.

Here's an example for years a jealous woman kept desperately trying to get me down, she felt inferior because she wasn't likable, had never been popular, and people seemed to gravitate towards me rather than towards her. I am outgoing, bubbly, fun, a free spirit, young, and of course I am of a darker skin tone. I also after years of reading and taking pride in academics, believe that wisdom and words are more powerful and more important than looking good to those around you. Because I was different, and because she was bitter and jealous, because she felt lonely at times and inadequate, she convinced those around her, especially those who took an interest in me, that there was something wrong with me. The way I looked, the way I talked, the way I spoke, jealous and determined to make me feel bad and be ashamed of who I was she tried every cause of bullying and low class ridicule and manipulation that was at her disposal. From getting family to chant "uggghlhh disgusting!! she's disgusting!! she's this, she's that!! she's ugly!!" this manipulative, insecure jealous, petty and insecure woman had to feel as though she was winning in some way. Whilst trying to befriend family members, because as is always the case the same people who want to tear you down, do it because they want to get close to you, and they want to take your place in some way.

For women who have experienced negative treatment and put downs and have been insulted about skin tone, and colour, and culture, celebrate yourself no matter what. This behaviour comes from their own self loathing. I cant tell you the amount of times it's happened to me, or I've had friends tell me that they were called ugly, and put down and ridiculed by someone, called things like monkey by their own race, had guys of the opposite sex, laugh at them, really degrade them to the point of bullying only to find out later on that these guys wanted to ask them out or get close to them in some way. Look beyond how you feel at the moment. What could be the real agenda? People often try and make us feel small because they feel inferior, jealous, or inadequate in some way. Be confident in your own skin.

God made no mistakes when he made you. If people have a problem with you, it's their problem.  Life wasn't made according to their rules, they don't have the monopoly, they didn't invent the game and if they did, they'd be happier playing it. They'd have less energy moaning and being miserable mithering others. Celebrate who you are. This is your life you only live it once. If they want to talk 'screw them, their losers anyway," do you think people with self esteem, people who are happy, less insecure about themselves, are happy in their own lives, care what skin tone you are? They wanna meet new people, they want to have fun, they wanna celebrate life.

The emotional escape artist: emotionally unavailable men and why they refuse to commit

Someone thinks they've got forever right? After all your acting like you've got forever to chase them. Been there ladies, done that. The emotional escape artists agenda is to stall you. Whilst you know exactly what you want, are completely emotionally committed. The emotional escape artist is a man or a woman who pretends as if they are confused, they don't know what they want. All these bad things have happened to them, their not sure whether this is the right time, the right situation, their finances are all wrong, it could upset their family,they've got children to think of, their just recovering from a breakup. So many delicious plausible explanations.Yet they have no problem with absorbing all your attention, being intimate, taking money off you,living with you, or if your exceptionally good looking and in a nice social standing, they have no problem trophying you. Basically showing you off to friends and family in order to prove that they are not alone, and they can attract reasonable partners. Wether it's marriage, a boyfriend girlfriend scenario or simply moving in together, you are allowed to ask where this is going in order to gain perspective. Often people enthralled in a love spiderweb with an emotional escape artist, let good partners pass them by, people who are more than eager to commit,and take your relationship, friendship or partnership to the next level.We often entertain emotional escape artist, or the emotionally unavailable man or women because of a deep fear of rejection,and just the hope that we are not being lead along. Sometimes we seek comfort, are fed up with lonely nights, want to have someone to share with friends, create our own postcard moments, and the hope of something more drives us to settle. Sometimes comfortably, other times outside the bracket.

The frustration with emotionally unavailable people is they leave us in a constant state of suspension, whilst choosing to be blissfully unaware of the conflicts and turmoil we experience within. Being in a situation with an emotionally unavailable person is like walking into a room seeing nothing but chairs yet when you attempt to sit down, you fall flat on your bum.It is like constantly flying, then when your ready to lay down your feet, there's no pavement there. Originally dizzy with the excitement, a new nervousness appears, a new fear and anxiety replaces the freedom. Do they not love you enough? Are they waiting for someone better to come along, do they even like you? Space is always the answer.





It helps to give emotionally unavailable people the space to come to their own realisations. Not bully them? Or hound them consistently? Just make it clear to them they are not the only option under the sun, and you have your own life, although they are part of your world, it doesn't revolve around them. Yes indeed. Some people lay down ultimatums.

Emotional escape artist are smarter than this. Because ultimately they don't want to be alone, they may falsely agree to your request, bide their time until you soon discover they seem to be more distant than ever.For some an ultimatum is another form of emotional blackmail.Some people actually resent you for having the audacity to put your foot down. After all this pattern, and this behaviour didn't just appear out of the blue. They were consistently allowed to disapoint you, because there were signs you saw but chose to ignore. Some will argue profusely "i just need space, i just need time," you may even be manipulated into believing your a nag, spoiling the atmosphere, taking the fun right out of it.



Yet if they need 'more time'and are 'just not sure what they want,' you can socialise too. You can make more friends, both of your gender and the opposite sex. Hang out with new people and experience more things. With time people reveal themselves. You may see your emotionally unavailable friend turn around 360 and decide you are indeed the chosen one, but be alert.





If they are reacting out of jealousy. Jealousy doesn't last for long and people soon return to their normal behavioural patterns. If you sense a natural change. A deeper understanding and a natural flow. You feel the person 'genuinely gravitating towards you', wanting to spend more intimate time with you rather than replacing you for time with someone else, being more real, almost more raw with their emotions,and this isn't just over a two week period, this is over time. Then it is score.

Partners often tweak their behaviour when they realise they are not the epicentre of your universe. You have friends, hobbies, humour even.






Your aim is not to create one identity or sacrifice individualism your focus is to share.If there is no change then you have a choice to make. You are in a situation where you are discontent. You are in a situation where you are being stalled, and there is no future....which you want desperately. No one on Earth lives forever, hopin' aint coping.Will you continue to begdate,or will you admit to yourself, it's not shameful to want what you want. 'Where there is no vision the people will perish' it's not a crime to think of a tomorrow. It's not a crime to want a healthy relationship.It's not a crime to love someone.

CRUSHES: the number 1 moment we fantasize about: Que Showreel

The most fantasized moment despite all illusions is not the sex, or even the Earthshattering, deeply moving, intense conversations. It is infact....the kissing. Have you ever accidentally watched your crushes mouth move and thought about how puuuuuuurfect their lips would be up against yours. Peach soft, tender, infact in our minds no crush has dry lips have you noticed. We imagine the movement of the kiss, slow and rhythmic, or rough and hungry. 'I am sooooo a hopeless romantic!!"  So for a breakfast special red ebony is giving it sweet and giving it loud. I found this on youtube....it's absolutely delicious, i had to share the love.