Fine tuning ourselves out of funk:

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Stop telling yourself that you can and you will control everything. Sometimes in life there are things that we will not be able to control. When I was younger. I used to believe that everything was black and white, simple, things had the boxes they slid in between. Black and white good or bad, nice and nasty. Yet if everything was so organised.....nobody would have written the book when bad things happen to good people. We learn that we are reactors, and how we choose to deal with a situation, defines who we are and ultimately who we become. Years of anger can turn to bitterness....wasted energy. Feelings of fear mean avoidance and missed opportunities. You have but one life to live. Try your best to live it with joy. Write a list of positive things you will say to yourself every morning, positive choices, and positive celebrations. There is no one else like you on Earth. Affirm your success, affirm your progress, and focus on change and growth.

Beauty in it's basic format

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When I was younger despite being seen as attractive, boyish, a free spirit. I was haunted by insecurities I had created myself. Insecurities about looks, and found all it took was for one person, specifically a guy, I didn't even have to like him....and I'd find myself curled up in front of the mirror sobbing my heart out. I didn't measure, I didn't fit.

As I got older though I learned something. I actually didnt need society's warped photoshop extravagances; neither did I need to be anybody else but me. We are beautiful because we're different. Beautiful because we're unique, have our own intricate features like a secret code we let the world in on. Everybody has their quirks and gods pinch of creativity. If we didn't the fashion and beauty industry wouldn't have made so much money, media wouldn't need photoshopping, and all those immaculate people we see turned out on tv wouldn't need their lighting , video editing software, photoshop and design software wouldn't be so successful. Beauty isn't just skin deep, it's soul deep.

Choosing self confidence

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When I was younger love was the immaculate sketch from a well edited, and re edited manuscript. I learned through the pain of real life experiences. Romances or almost romances gone wrong, I was denying myself a freedom, an education, growth, whilst I rotted away in my own rage and self pity. I had made the worst type of investments, id invested in people I knew were wrong, hoping to get an expensive stock market portfolio. They were cheap characters, and I felt cheap, and over and over again i felt frustrated, because I was trying to be mr Majeika and turn plastic into gold. Choose you, above all else if your 'damaged' or 'hurt' or 'broken' in some way, focus on building yourself up. Freeing that self esteem that is buried beneath a pile of hostile crap. Take yourself shopping when your down, treat yourself to a manicure and pedicure, bubble baths, say positive affirmations about yourself, and celebrate the things you've accomplished even when your falling apart. Positivity brings strength , stay as positive as you can. Rebuild a belief in yourself and trap it in the ball of your hand.