Eating self education

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The conflict of miseducation leads us to believe we are less than we are. You are more powerful than you know, it is important to look within. Your spirit cannot be broken. Battered or beat. It is simple, refuse to say no to your dreams. Refuse to allow others to tear you down or break your spirit, because the world is full of people who try. If you find yourself attracting toxic people , keep your distance. Toxic people are contaminated, they spread poison, and it is important to build yourself up to Epic proportions. Have your vision in sight and keep moving forward , keep striving toward the change you need, and don't let anyone tear you down.  Or steal your joy. Sometimes people who are unhappy within themselves, are blood thirsty, and hungry to see you fall appart. It makes them feel better about themselves, it makes them feel like they have something in common with other people, Focus on building yourself up, when others are working so diligently to tear you down. I say it time and again, know who you are.

Leading from loosers

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I recently typed in how to deal with a jealous person, then I corrected myself. We do not need to waste precious time on people who themselves are emotionally rotting away. They are jealous because they are unhappy. They are mean because they are unhappy. They are cold because they are unhappy, and they are bitter because...they are unhappy. If you find yourself being the target of someone's specialist subject, the 'object' of ridicule, a hot topic for gossip, ask yourself a simple question. Why am I so significant to this person's life. Why do they need to hide behind me to cover up the fact, that they can't take responsibility for their own life. Mistakes, poor choices. Leave them to continue rabbiting on about you whilst you focus on building up your own life. Focus on trying to be happy.

One thing I will guarantee you, is that it will be hard. But if you focus on building up what you do over what they say. Your light will continue to burn bright. You may find that people who seemed nice enough but are weak enough characters will quickly turn, they'll notice you've gone quiet, and because their weak people continue to be drawn to the stronger party. Focus on you, on your progress, on your growth and let negative people entertain themselves.

Are you dating a jerk?

This particular species of man breed is what i'd call 'le petit arsehole.' Women can be very loyal, we can also be very naieve and very stupid when it comes to the guys we like or date. Sometimes in order to not have to take responsibility for her emotional state, a woman will brainwash herself by saying things like 'i'm probably just being dramatic,' or 'i'm probably just being over sensitive' or my favourite lay out all the horrible, nasty, mean spirited things their guy does like a desert pallette for you to nit pick at, then boom five minutes later she's all 'he's such an amazing guy though.' Seriously, is that why she's always crying? Is that why she's gotten ten times more insecure than she used to? Is that why she's a hundred times more jealous of the little joys she witnesses other people experiencing? Relationships will always have their ups and downs, yet in a nutshell, if you are seeing someone that constantly makes you feel bad about yourself, you wake up dreading seeing them in the mornings....that's not the guy for you.