Denied but not disappointed: Picking the right people

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Let the wrong one's deny you. In life when you take a bold step often you will find that those people who were once upon a time friendly, may distance themselves from you. As though you were packing heat.Remember in time though when your boldness pays off, or the people you once cared for try and sneak into your bosom, the door is closed until they earn your trust and respect. The possibility is dead in the water. You can be polite, be sociable, but make sure they see you know that their a shape shifter. You are aware of how quickly they turn and it's not something you desire or require. Their approval is not something you need.

I have never been a saint. What i will say though is what we do to others affects something deep within ourselves.A while ago i reached out to the wrong type of person. Someone with a nasty jealous spirit, and in return because they had no self esteem, they tried to crush mine. When you choose people to associate with, it is important to pick wisely. Some people will never earn your respect, but just make sure you respect yourself.

The best way to get revenge

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Wow we've all been through it.. Your heartbroken not over the guy, but over what the guy thought he could do to you. I'm a firm believer in the belief that sometimes people pick their targets. You envision your revenge being a Mercedes Benz, some sports car, you thin as a cigarette and the most unbelievable stud in your passenger seat, maybe even driving. After all the greatest revenge is success. Yet you know what also classifies as success, forgetting them , reminding them their simply a pinch on Earth, whilst revelling in your new found confidence. Swimming in it like you've just found a tub of money. Consistent rage empowers the person you despise, even if their behaviour was officially not fair, squatting like a toad in your own discontent, whilst they lead their blissful life of nonchalance will not save you. Focus on building yourself up. Happiness.

The greatest revenge is happiness. Who would have thought it. Happiness and pretending as though not only do they not exist but they are completely insignificant. 'Hurt people, hurt people' it's just how it is, you think if someone was happy, focussed, positive, they would hurt you, very unlikely. We have all been hurt people, and we've all hurt someone. The best way to deal with people that try and bring you down, if you have to communicate with them, then be polite, otherwise, if they continue to be toxic dont give them the time of day. Fight for your happiness, that is the ultimate revenge.