Avoiding negative people

Hecklers love to destroy the comedy stand up of others, and yet there are hecklers at life. Caught in their own prison of discontent eager to hook you into the bars that enclose them. It is a prison of the mind to judge everything with such negativity, it is with self contempt they provide cruel comments or jokes, because your making progress and they are not. When in the throes of your passion forgive yourself for listening to the hollowed voices of pain trapped in a cooling breeze. You are a visionary, you must listen to those who are ascending. Connect to those who believe in triumph. Evading negative people is the most empowering key to success.

The power of positive thinking

Positive thinking techniques to push through pain

Its a jungle out there, and sometimes you find yourself being someone else's emotional prey. Wether your being bullied at school, the lowest common denominator in the work totem pole, there is something that each have in common. Anger that burns from within. The need to control other people because sometimes life seems completely out of our control. If your suffering silently, or ranting and raving to friends and colleagues, here's something to keep in mind. This is not the end, it feels awful at the time, and it will pass. I once worked in a scenario where one male colleague, who was very bitchy competitive, and just a little bit to prejudiced for my liking, took it upon himself to try and turn the whole work force against me. I was gutted because i had tried to be so nice, understanding the rule that when your an outsider, and you come into an already formed team, where bonds have been made and people have already made a connection. Especially if the organisation is more like a social club than a workforce.

Positive thinking helps us step outside the realms of a negative bracket. Try some Effective positive thinking techniques to help push through your pain barrier.

 Understand that your feelings should not dictate the rest of your day. Be the master of your ship. There are key things to get you in a positive state when you wake up in the morning. Exercise releases endorphins, that affect the body and stimulate the brain. Get yourself pumped

Positive thinking affirmations, along with positive tools are great for getting yourself into that mind body zone connection.
I am a worthwhile person
I am valuable
I am a magnet for joy
I will attract the right people to me
I am learning and growing, i am only human, i will make mistakes
The greatest men and women have made mistakes.

Remind yourself that we are often our harshest critics. What did you accomplish today? What made you feel proud? What put a smile on your face? If you didn't smile go and stand in front of your reflection, and practice smiling.

Put on something that makes you laugh. This is the power of positive thinking, it will move you from a negative frame of circumference ,to a more open and inviting energy. You will begin to attract more people with the right vibration to you like a magnet, they will be drawn to your personality and you will begin to like yourself more. Focus on the right things. When we find ourselves in a negative or depressive pit, it can often be because our mental pattern keeps us reverting to type.  If you need to focus on something positive. Focus on what you have achieved, or what you plan to achieve, because you are on a journey. Be fixed on your goals and the positive and sacred things in your life.

Tackling your truth:Understanding your motivation

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What is your truth? As much as I talk about positive thinking. Life is more than positive thinking. You don't need just a strong mindset, you need a powerful strategy and you have to be willing to take the steps to make whatever you need happen....happen. For example someone's positive thinking and suddenly a car comes out of nowhere and runs them over. Positive thinking alone will not get you through that. Life is action and reaction. What is the next step?We have to consistently think about what follows? What do i do next.

What do you plan to do next? Write an album/ Write a book? Do a film/ Star in a play? Go after something you are passionate about. Take positive action. Talking and doing are completely different things. We can all see how beautiful that finish line looks, how beautifully polished how eloquently vanished, and clean it looks. Before it gets there, that takes work. Real hard work. Engage yourself in the doing, excite yourself for you are in the process of something phenomenal that may not just change your life, but the life of those around you. Focus, remain on point. Focus on other key things such as being happy. Your joy is imperative to the process, you are in the creative process, let your juices flow and indulge your senses.

What motivates you? Is it failure? The possibility of success, the potential to travel far to triumph, to test your capacity, and see your visions realised. Whatever your motivation, you need inspiration as fuel. For imagination. Read often, biographies. Autobiography's, be inspired by other people's journey's.