Does society not like confidence? Samantha Brick

Wow seriously there was a whole outrage about Samantha Bricks commentary glorifying herself but in all honesty i believe that was her perspective...deluded as it might seem to everybody else. We all know of Samantha Brick's mail online article that read people hate me because i'm beautiful. Yes sir, it sounded arrogant, snooty, obnoxious, it sounded all but ridiculous yet i've witnessed it first hand. Negative and sabotaging behaviours being done to 'actually stunning' women who dont appear to have done anything to anyone, and i've read loads of articles where frustrated beautiful women vent at not having female friends, having guys that are too intimidated to approach them that may suit them perfectly seeking out every plain Jane in the room, being ridiculed and harassed because of their beauty.I dont believe this is a strange phenomena, women are very competitive, easily threatened, and quite jealous of a woman that appears to be a standout beauty. It's sad that society believes a beautiful woman automatically is guaranteed a one hundred percent easier life.....sadly despite Samantha Bricks delusions i dont believe she's the gold star beauty she thinks she is.

I do believe her accounts about the gifts that have been given to her like the champagne, and other special benefits. Beauty is subjective, and i once had a gentleman offer to pay for a ticket for me and a family member of mine to travel abroad. I dont dazzle everyone,but Samantha Brick brought to attention a reality, women who may not even be seen as beautiful across the board, may still be treated as a threat and quite nastily too. Im not saying all women are treated as the enemy, there are beautiful women internationally that have a truck load of friends,and companions. Yet beautiful self assured women, who may not be arrogant, can still be alienated and treated as problematic, due to jealousy and someone else's low self esteem.

Pain is temporary: Another video i love

As is usually the case, Red ebony is going through another one of her motivational video, mentally beef myself up phases. I saw this video, and i loved it. There's a realness to it, a raw edge. Sometimes blunt words are the onlymotivation
we need.

I love this it's so spot on: Twenty signs of a coward!!! Brilliant post, check out the site

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Twenty recognizable signs of a wimp
You don’t want to befriend them or hire them or marry them. They are the grey little people hiding in the shadows while others do the heavy lifting and take the risks. They second guess, undermine and find fault.

Here are the warning signs:

1.bitches, whines and complains
2.unprincipled, no values base
3.weak
4.a sissy, a wuss5.lazy
6.humorless, goofy
7.unkempt
8.disagreeable9.unfit
10.self-centered
11.gossips
12.dependent
13.sneaky
14.spineless, a coward
15.ineffectual, non-contributor
16.laughs at others’ hardships or mistakes
17.takes unfair advantage
18.must go first
19.selfish
20.uninteresting and uninterested

http://success.org/success/2011/03/twenty-recognizable-signs-of-a-wimp/

The Flyby friend: How to know your worth

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Have you ever described your friend as a user? That's right, that friend that you crowned BFF, gave special treatment to, only seems to contact you when they want or need something. Maybe its money, assistance, to vent, either way when you get comfortable now and decide to hit them up on the regular, that amazing friend of yours seems out of reach, emotionally unavailable. When you meet them and you haven't spoken to them in months, they launch into a full on monologue about how busy they have been, how they haven't kept in contact with anybody, yet from others you hear about trips theyve been planning, holidays, outings. Quickly take that person off their pedestal, this is what you call a flyby friend. Flyby friends are often very charismatic, likeable, very popular, so much so that they take the people around the
For granted. Sometimes it's personal, other times it's not, you need to socialise make new friends, take new risks, make sure you show, don't tell. Show that person they are not the centre of your universe. Just like you can be ignored or replaced, so can they. If it means having a label next to that persons caller I.d when they call so you can remember, or giving that person a wide berth for a while and responding in text do it. Maybe your so hurt by that person you want to take gaps from a social circle that includes them and find yourself, or even better you want to talk to them and express how you feel, that's fine. It's not about holding a grudge being bitter or resentful, it's about you validating your self to you. Reminding yourself that your worth more than feeling used and then cast aside. If it doesn't matter to you and you don't take it personally that's fine, but if it does and you find yourself irritated, or hurt, frustrated even, you are worthy of better.