Friday, 30 September 2011

How will this look on you: Phenomenal Jewellery for fantastic makeovers



Are you looking your best,or is there room for improvement? Could you be the next style icon? Are you feeling that urge to turn heads?

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Beating procrastination


Procrastination is the prince of poor decision. That's what i know yet somehow my attempts to do the most spectacular things are thwarted by an obsessive need to cook or clean.Mirrors become spotless, new recipes with even more delicious names, and curious ingredients suddenly consume me.

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Why do we procrastinate? Is it a fear to do, or a fear to face. What do i mean by that? A fear to do is the process of hardwork, engaging in the systemacy of it all. Yet a fear to face. Is the terror to even think about your prospective outcome. Simplifying it, "i couldn't bare the disappointment." Syndrome. It's alright to be hopeful, and disappointment sucks, but it's better to have tried and been disappointed, than not even trying at all. They say there are loads of excuses for failure, but none for success. So what happens if you don't even try, are you mute and have to leave the room. Just do it, just go for it. So whatever positive progressive things you have on your mind people, just do it. It hurts less to try and fail than to not try at all.

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Million Dollar mindset


I started another venture or attempt to make my first million. It's crazy right? A woman whose barely got a pound to her name is actually attempting to make a million pounds."I must be high as a cloud," right? Possibly. If life has taught me anything, it's that every achievement is about having the guts to even try is an achievement within itself. You learn from mistakes, and attempt to make positive change, and progess for your future. Success even in the smallest things is about stepping out in faith.
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Originally when i attempted to succeed i was seeing a glory haze. You know when you get so arrogant you think you can do everything yourself? You'll be like your own greatest saviour? Well this time round i admit i need assistance to raise funds, and make a positive difference in my life, and others. If you see anything you like feel free to shop freely, and securely here, and purchase with joy, passion and freedom. Or if your even tempted to donate to my attempts at pursuing progress, click on the donate button



Thursday, 29 September 2011

A crush , a snob , and i?




I don't know which one to harp on and ramble about first. My shy crush, or once again the frustration that his mother is an insecure overzealous pitbull. I wonder if she's one of those women that always envisions the worst that could happen. "What a date? A baby? Relocating to another country?" Seriously man, some people have an imagination to top J.K Rowling.

What i'd really like to discuss is the danger of simply following. Not asking your own questions, drawing your own conclusions. The frustrating thing is he wants to talk to me, but his shyness is overwhelming,along with his guilt. I want to talk to him, but there is mistrust there. How much conversation can you make with a guy whose mum simply whispers, and he's already jumping up and down like he's been electrocuted.It could be my amateur dramatics, and this guy is head over heels in love with some Barbie, and fitting a ring to propose. Yet no matter what the scenario. You knew, in your heart, that your mother is speaking out of her own insecurity, vindictiveness, arrogance, and you simply just go along? I would understand if something cruel was done on my part, vicious, nasty, false, but it wasn't that. Some insecure woman whose terrified of her own shadow, starts feeding you poison through a straw and you suck it with no restraints on? What does any woman say to a man that does that?

We were taught to question things, find our own conclusions, not act immaturely or cruelly. It's funny. All the time he was crossing the street, dramatically disappearing into his house, rolling up his windows, when i said good morning despite being painfully depressed. When i made sure i was always pleasant, always polite.He never thought he'd want to speak to me again.


When 'genuinely nice people decide to emotionally alienate you, their almost naieve about the outcome. They forget that they started something and will have to maintain it? All those negative feelings behaviourisms that they've copied on someone else's instruction,they forget that there will be a time, where you'll stop caring about how nice they were in 1992, 94, 2009, they forget you'll simply think 'How is this person behaving now?' and begin doing some running of your own.In your mind you think it's not the consistency of their behaviour, but that they dared to do it in the first place. They forget how feelings, or emotions creep in. Like a leaking tap, that floods the whole bathroom floor,then slides unto the nearby carpet.

It begins with one day. One day you look great again, your happy on that day, your smiling, and that smile is contagious. Your laughing, and the sound of your laughter rings through their open window. Your walking along the high street and not wearing the dowdy black their used to, but colours that are ripe enough to sting the eye and make the mouth water. All the time i'd built myself up, laughing, joking with other people, he never thought he'd want to be part of that. And those 'good mornings, how are you? How's your day going?' He never thought he'd want to be part of that. Yet something changed.Maybe a guilt that reminded him this person has treated him with nothing but respect. They haven't judged you, they havent patronised you, they haven't been cruel. Or you've been around enough disrespectful people to now appreciate what warmth feels like. To embrace kindness, and respect. Then another reality creeps in, your not the only human being on the planet. Your not the only guy on the planet. There is only a small matter of time to show that person your remix. The version of you that grooves nicer. I would argue that stubborness is a big weakness and it's one of mine. That pretending you can't see someone when you want to talk to them,or get to know them, is the height of ridiculous.I could also defend. What happens when that person does let you in after wronging them, how do they know you wont use their vulnerabilities to make those lacking around you feel more secure? If that person is not there will you take pride in defending them against animosity? Are you strong enough to wether a storm of critics?

Sunday, 25 September 2011

The Euphoria of Jewels





Lets face it. There's a feeling of real Euphouria everytime you don yourself with some glam 'ice.' That belief that this new item, this sparkle, will add that glow to lure the man of our dreams, or hypnotise passing strangers.expensive diamond jewellery
I call that moment the eclipse. That shining moment. I heard a fantastic metaphor recently, it wasn't just about jewellery, it was more about life. Someone said, when you light a candle, it's not placed under a bed, but in broad sight, so this candle can what? So it can shine. I don't know about everybody else, but it feels real good to glow.

I love the amazon selection of jewellery and accessories, because for one, i feel less guilty about shopping online, for two they have items which i've never seen anywhere else, and for three the hottest guy approached me a while ago.
His opening line was, "i like your earrings'." Sadly a shallow side to me was exposed, as i quickly whipped out my phone and didn't even wait to be asked, but literally threw my number at him. I'm not a shop till you drop kind of person, but i do admit, there is a Euphouria that comes with investing in your image, and celebrating your iconic status.


Saturday, 24 September 2011

XFACTOR: Lil Homie what you tripping on? Great song, Chris Rene

I'm tripping on this guy. He rocks people, vote for him on the x factor. His music has soul, it tells a journey, shares a story. Chris Rene thank god you made it out of rehab. You are incredible. This song is being bought by me, as soon as it's released. Real. Raw. Talent.

Frustrating Crushes



Not all of us get to marry the president, and become first lady.Most women want to marry a leader, not someone who simply follows the masses, and has their identity in rotation. crushI personally find a man very attractive, when he knows what he wants and can't be manipulated, or puppeted by someone insecure, or even just bored.
As much as i still look through the window when my crushes van appears,or get those excited tingles, and chills, when i sense he's following me in his car, but too scared to say, 'lil homie what you trippin on,'he he. I remember those days when i wasn't so shy around him, more confident, more openly friendly.Then i also remember the other times when his mother would start acting up, all clingy and controlling.

Advising her son to cross the street, or roll up windows, ignore me if i politely said good morning. I remember the nasty bitching and backbiting she did, and how despite knowing i wasn't a bad character, Despite calling me by phone, and 'happening' to be around places i was 'happening at.' All it took was one jealous, insecure, petty trouble making woman, and suddenly he couldn't even make eye contact, or attempt to be friendly.I know how bad his shyness can be, but that's no excuse i'm sorry. I get trying to please your mother, but seriously
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After a recent two year disaster of 'shame dating', the hundred times he strategically drove past me, and i knew he wanted communication, i knew he was feeling down at times, vulnerable, sometimes even fragile;i thought now you know how i felt. First it was pride,and then it was an actual flamboyant fear. Disappointments had changed me, i wasn't the old charismatic girl i used to be. I was creepy, and paranoid at times, and although a sensual confidence had appeared in me.


The core, the foundation of who i thought i was,had become loose, like bolts and nails on an object that looks perfectly stern at sight, then at touch it quickly collapses.I can't even complain, i literally couldn't bring myself to simply say "Hello." I just kept thinking it hurt when you snobbed me, and i was always really nice to you. Now you wanna be friendly? When there's no one there to see it?

Thursday, 22 September 2011

Juicy Jewels: Jewellery to make their eyes pop




People who don't understand jewellery as part of an intimate healing process are so wrong. Imagine being dumped, ridiculed in school, being rejected by the guy of your life 'highlights.' You bop in with a pair of these and your suddenly a standing ovation. Some may argue that Jewellery cannot transform a whole life experience.sexy diamond jewellery Yet to be sexy, sassy, saucy, stylish, doesn't that transform the mind? Dont we all deserve a treat every say lifetime? Hell we deserve treats for even living. Celebrate your life, your creativity, and your swagger, check out the stash below....and that guy didn't even notice you....a new look, a new wardrobe. You never know...but you might as well try.







Sunday, 18 September 2011

Simplicity of Respect


Facing up to bullies takes a lot of courage. People close to you may disappear into shadow, decide after agreeing with you, that your beliefs, your argument is wrong. In life there are those who will always side with who they believe to be the strongest. On principle alone....you have a right to a simple courtesy called respect.respect They don't have to bow when they see you, start singing your praises, and tooting your achievements, you can be the perfect invisible person, so long as your invisible enough to partake peacefully and effectively in your life.It won't cost them money to be polite, to have some class, they're not trading in every semblance of the rational, they are simply giving you something they require themselves.

Thursday, 15 September 2011

The Maybe Guy




Wow, so semi progress on a crush thats going nowhere, it feels like. I realised yesterday, okay, today about the object of my current affections. First of all his mother hates me, and humanity in general, Second of all his mother hates her lot, as in 'is this how my life is, is this what i got for just breathing with so much skill?' Please honey, get in line. I've noticed from the tidbits of raised conversation she has, which strategically sail through the air. Her favourite line is 'it's not fair, it's just not fair.'

However back on point with him. There are other guys i'm seeing,nothing magical, just communication. Anyway, these guys are passionate, and ambitious, and know how to take charge. He hasn't taken charge, and i'm not sure if he ever will. I get a vibe that he's attracted to me, and he wants to get to know me, or get close...maybe i'm highly disillusioned. Yet that's the point the maybe guys are such over hardwork. Their sometimish. Meaning one minute they're doing something, the next their doing nothing. I know he can be really shy, and scared, especially when it comes to his mother. But i guess it's really time to move on. Properly, as in actually let go of him and my 'sound of music' ideals of love. I've been waiting for him to show some steel (guts) ever since i picked up that he might like me. Not just in a sexual hungry way, but there's a warmth about him, like he would be soft with a woman, gentle, kind, sweet. (Sigh) If i wait for this guy i'll be waiting my whole life, and if i do click with him, it'll be like i'm dating him and his mum. She's too overbearing, and he's too easily contaminated when it comes to her. I guess, this is actually not happening.Also he probably finds me attractive, but not enough to cross his mother. It's time to divert.

Friday, 9 September 2011

Hot vibe:Funniest things on the internet

This is one of the funniest and most embarassing things to hit Nigeria. You said it. Vic-O and his amazing lyrics. I nearly peed myself laughing,seriously this guy toned my abs.

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Oh yeah and Vic-O may originally have been 50 tyson


Next up as if x factor isn't comic enough, here they are..The duos.
They sound like someone dying,or under attack...whooooa don't let them sing at your birthday party. Isn't it really funny how people who can't sing for shit, look at the judges with such seriousness at the end of their performance like 'hey how d'you think i did'.....are you kidding me?
Here are The Duos
http://youtu.be/09CPF2yKy0Q

That was the link



Has anyone seen South African Idol. This 'lunatic' sang killing me softly, she really was killing eveeeeeeerybody. What would Lauren say if she saw this? AAAAAWFUL, AAAAAWFUL

Friday, 2 September 2011

Sexy Saturday

Today is sexy saturday think sexy thoughts people, sizzle while you walk.
Your too hot to trot. This is a day to look good and feel incredible.

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