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First question: Why is he dragging his feet? If the man of your dreams is giving you lingering stares, going out of his way to call you, text you, talk to you, and of course my favourite happening to bump you by accident....uhhhhmm. Yum yum, red ebony loves sensual flirtations. If he's always asking you to spend time together, laughing at jokes you crack that makes the person beside you two push puzzled eyebrows together, if he's not that obvious but as a lady you sense some kind of sexual tension, uhhmm. Go amber, but don't starve. Simply put there are other things that women feel interfere with a potential partnership. Shyness is one.As endearing as that shy guy with the hot chocolate baritone, and those sensual eyes might be, the consistent overwhelming nerves begins to frustrate. Drop hints if you must do flirt with compliments, but whatever you do, DONT BEGDATE!!Begging date is anything from ripping your knickers off, and going I WANT IT RIGHT NOW!! To somethin

This idea i got from another site called http://www.pastemagazine.com/blogs/lists/2011/10/10-great-songs-about-hating-your-job.html anyway they had the list, but i've tried to add some videos. Who doesn't want to feel as though an audience of highly paid, influential musicians know what it feels like to be under paid and undervalued. This version is performed by Joshua James, an amazing artist....and hot to boot The original custom concern Bare naked ladies, Pinch me This song i love it's from the office space soundtrack, its by canibus and Bizmarkee Black flag, i've had it

.....in my life why do i smile, at people i would rather kick in the eyyyyyeeeeeeee....Their lyrics are so brilliant. I can imagine someone playing this during their lunch hour after getting the boss his coffee, and discussing his holiday plans with him.

How many women would love an ex whose acted like a complete jerk, to grovel and sing this song? Or maybe a crush whose acted cruelly to get down on his knees, and......Go west!!!!!

realisation by sea fairy Positive energy, Fill this place Fill this time and fill this space Creative energy, Come to me, Come to me, So i can see, Open my eyes, and Open my sight, Make my vision, Clear in sight Lets be stubbornly positive this year people, Life will throw us some knocks, But we have that mental armour Let's empower ourselves this year Lets be strength, visions, and completed goals. Happiness is the answer, Lets make ourselves happy

infinity by vrxx Key questions are always a great way to start. What do i want? Where do i see myself. Whom do i see myself becoming. Describe that image verbally, now hold unto a visualisation, as you add more detail to the image you have mentally placed before you. What car are you driving? What house are you living in, How do you feel? Now write a list of 50 steps on paper how do you get there? Do your research, what have other people done? How did they accomplish the goal you want? Read their interviews, their autobiographies if you can.Listen to Webinars online, create a list of 100 seminars you could visit to learn more information in relation to your goal. Networking is key. If your idea, product, or goal were to be successful what sort of marketing campaigns would you run? Which books would you read? Who would you speak to? And who could you help in the process. Remember the universe is all about reciprocity. Now keep visualising the success of those goals you have in pla

Throw yourself into the process. Wether it rains, sleets, snow, your exhausted, your friends just called to harp on about her life. Take action. Use exercise as an example. For example one would think an individual whose trying to make a million pounds is a different story to a fat person whose trying to lose weight and tone their abs, or an athlete. Wrong. It's the same process of taking action and consistent discipline, focus, reminding yourself you have something to accomplish. Most athletes despite being exhausted, dragging their feet at times, and having to endure intense physical and emotional pain, they go back for round two, three, two hundred and ten they just keep going.Knowledge is power they research the best way to get the best outcomes. That means knowing all the right buttons to push and the places to prod then. Extending beyond their usual call of duty.Take a step towards your goal every single day.Watch the video, it's amazing!!!!!

Recently i set myself a goal. It was one of those goals that would seem absolutely ridiculous to everybody else, yet to me, writer, photographer, this curious ambition of mine represented something. Everyone gets dreams that either warn them or inspire them to proceed with a task, that as far fetched as it may seem, it is in fact possible. In my family some members have the gift of translating a dream, or understanding what the universe is trying to tell them. When i was younger, really young twice as gutsy as i am now. There was a guy in my primary school, his name was Daniel. He was the fastest kid, the most popular, and by far one of the nicest looking. Daniel was known for being like a bullet out of a gun. I come from a very athletic family, and around that time i loved a good race, and a damn good challenge. Nobody had beaten Daniel ever. His best friend was a guy named Jerome, he was actually quicker than Daniel, but ofcourse Daniel got all the publicity. I was a year o

Leadership is all about perseverance. Understanding who you are and what you have to do. Remembering that it won't always be fun. You wont always experience that high from it, but so long as your trying. Pushing yourself as far as you believe you can go, and extending yourself beyond. Sometimes it will be so painful, people will ask you what your doing. They'll say "Hey Buddy things don't seem to be working out for you. We can't see it." Other people are not supposed to see it, you are. Out of that pain, that hunger, that vision, is progress. I've always believed in the physical realm, what we can see, and the spiritual realm, the workings of the universe we cannot see. In the physical realm nothing may appear to be happening, yet sometimes when we sleep, those ideas, those seeds, those gems planted in our subconscious, with much persistence, and much consistency, are the difference between ultimate success and ultimate failure. The failures that come

If you let insecure people build you up, there will be moments when you feel as though your touching the clouds, and when reality hits, you'll realise you haven't even left the ground and you are barely touching the surface. Insecure toxic people are for example the friend who tells you your amazing in private, yet when any positive news happens to you, she's suddenly not taking your calls anymore, or becomes emotionally unavailable. The jealous friend who decides to tear you down publicly whenever she senses your getting more attention than her.Seriously? No matter how nice these people appear to be from time to time. If you are around someone you feel you have to walk on tiptoe with, whenever something positive is taking place in your life, protect your goals and ambitions so when you do accomplish them it's too late for that person to do the damage inside out. It takes a lot of faith to accomplish something unusual, unpredictable and spectacular.You don'

by roxanac Feel free to shake what your mama gave ya. People will tell you, your not pretty enough, not attractive enough, not intelligent enough, not successful enough. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We are not put here on Earth to conform to a consensus appeal. We are put here, to grow, to expand to celebrate exactly who we are. To inspire, to set ablaze, the world we live in. With passion, joy, a hunger to share, and a craving for knowledge. The person who defined you as flawed, how many flaws have you spotted in them. I bet if you looked closely enough, you would see millions. Guess what? You've got more interesting things to look at, remind yourself, "You've got stuff to do." Your a busy little bee, and with the time you've got, you'll use it to empower yourself and inspire those around you.People will not always give you the high five you need. You could be the most amazing person on Earth. Why do i always say this line? Because i'v

Don't ever let someone tell you you cant do something. As much as i'm not a fan of Mel Gibson any more. That speech in brave heart was so moving.

WHEN STUBBORNESS IS A GOOD THING!!

This is truely inspirational. Life isn't about those who judge from the sidelines, it's about those people who have the guts to take action and do something different.

Free spirit by zindy I don't care what any numpty or know it all says. Staying positive consistently is one of the hardest things to do. You program your mind to be fierce,you cement it in a coat of positive thoughts and beliefs, then rattle and shake, the universe creeps in turning you into an emotional casualty. What do you do? You mentally fight your demons the way you'd battle a school yard bully. Negative thoughts are damaging, they slow you down, douse you in doubt and intensely contaminate the process, you need to stay positive to keep yourself going otherwise you weaken your steel, and you loose momentum.A positive mindset will save your life. Exercise is key to a positive mindset. Exercise doesn't just give you that incredible body. It strengthens the mind. It teaches you discipline, focus, drive and consistency. After a good routine and sweating it out, your body feels amazing, and your mind is revved up and rearing to go. Write a letter to yourself as

By Benheine It's madness they tell you. Yet your gut tells you something completely different. You have all the cards in place somehow there is a missing link. There is also information out there to find it. I often encourage people that speak to me about a problem in business, or an idea not clicking in place. To research, and research thoroughly. If you look hard enough there is a book, or an article, a research study or a contact that can translate all your business hieroglyphics . The right information can direct you towards a gap in the market and an opportunity untapped. We dont do this because we've been informed of information overload, or ask of data. The only way knowledge is abused, is when information is not put into action. There are people who produce a truck load of data, and just sit on it not knowing they are sitting on a goldmine . This is often because they haven't taken the steps to use that information for a worthy cause. You are allowed to do t

mountains by sh986 Persistence and consistency are the answer to any questions about progression your battling with.When the going gets tough, the tough get going.Tough people take action. Not just once, or twice, or three times, they replicate the actions they take in order for progression to take place.Fear can be paralysis.That is why we keep pushing, and keep moving forward with stealth and drive.Fear creeps in easily. It sneaks through the gates of an ambituos soul. We begin to question ourselves, we can become consumed by doubt. Can i really do this? Is it really worth it? Look how many people have failed before i have. Our eardrums hearken to the gossip of others failed attempts, people who have been left desolate and emotionally abandoned their ambitions. They say winners never quit, and quitters never win. That's too square. Quitters get scared, paranoia sets in. Take a bite out of the sandwich one chunk ata time. Whatever your fighting for. It wont happen straigh

How often do we clutch at our pockets, terrified to invest funds for a project to take off? Maybe it was to buy a book or pay for a seminar, maybe it was even to hire ourselves a mentor. The media has run amock with stories of recession, and titilating news of companies that are going bust. This feeds into our fear of loss, and poverty, so we clutch our pockets tighter. There is a universal rule. Knowledge activated is finance. You need to be in the know, and use the knowledge you've discovered to reach higher. When we struggle to take our business or project to the next level, there is no such thing as too much information. If you lack information , you lack the promise of growth. Simply having potential is not enough. An idea is simply that, an idea. It's like a plane without an engine. You need to ask the right questions, read the right books, and contact the right person for it to take off the ground. A few years ago i didn't have a dime to my name. Yet i want

passion by Bagdadi Life isn't a personal assault on you. She's not picking you out from the multitudes, and deciding, this person, this one person is who i'm going to tear to shreds. Sometimes it feels like that doesn't it? Sometimes you feel as though whilst your pulling yourself together, the universe is picking you appart. What do you do then? You fight the smart way. Equip yourself with the knowledge and the information you need to carry yourself to new heights. The darker it seems, the highest you must climb. You want to reach that mountain, to glare at the world from your throne. Our adversities define us. They strengthen our muscles, make our backs solid and inspire us to lift our heads higher.Keep your head up. Everyday whenever i feel the sadness creeping in, i ready my armour. Exercise to strengthen the body and the mind, i research into things i'm passionate about, as we all know knowledge is power and finance. Whatever hole you find yourself in, fi

He knew what was going on, his mother knew what was going on. All it took were a few people to ridicule, insult and belittle me, and that was it for him. The same guy that kept parking in front of my house, loitering outside waiting for me to come home, slowing his car down to a crawl had suddenly disappeared off the face of the planet. I knew exactly what was going on. He was avoiding me because he was utterly and painfully gutless, a campaign for coward. Usually when i leave my house, he conveniently steps out of his, pretending to be fixing something, or taking something out. What a wakeup call, originally, i'd just shake my head when i saw him because in my spirit i'd thought to myself how can you let other people tell you who to talk to at the age of 30 something years old, that's weak.Our family had fallen out with his mother, the way most people in the neighbourhood had fallen out with his mother. One day randomly this passive aggressive, vindictive, manipulati

How many times have we been there? You have a goal, a dream, or an ambition, and you talk about it till the saliva's leaking out of your mouth. You bleed it to the ears of those around you. Whilst it's just talk everythings fine, the support is there, they encourage you, and they constantly say things like "Of course you can do it, you'd be amazing at it. "They discuss all these avenues, and routes, you can take to get it done. Then you actually take action, and lo and behold, results start to show. Your no longer talking out of your neck, they can actually see these things happening, and suddenly there's a strange air. You sense that you've done something wrong, yet have no idea what it is. The energy becomes awkward. You quickly notice that the same person who used to share everything with you, literally confide out their intestines. Is suddenly secretive. As though their hiding something from you. If you're both passionate about the same field,

I love this frank and honest video commentary on how to get over someone you never dated. Who hasn't been there, pining over some guy/princess,that at the time you found yourself fawning over. Maybe it was loneliness, maybe it was boredom, or you simply thought you'd found a catch....made more appealing by how emotionally unavailable they are. It's important to get over someone that's not right for you. rejection in dating rejection in dating is actually helping you channel time and energy into more suited areas. Passions, dreams, ambitions, goals...who needs to figure out something not worth figuring out, or someone not worth figuring out, trust me...i've been there. Watch this vid, it rocks

I love native American men, their a glorious sight. I found this video, had to share.

Fiona by Kaysha, talk about seeeeeeeeeeeeeeeexy!

How many times do we ask that question? Is it my imagination, someone can't be acting this cruelly for no reason can they? And if they hate me so much why are they trying to compete with me? If i'm so much lesser than them..wouldn't they try and compete with someone more....like them? Jealousy is an irrational emotion. Sometimes it can be just as irrational as anger. Are you good looking, intelligent, have wealthy posessions, popular and likeable?Maybe you wouldn't describe yourself as these things, but whatever quality you have,this is the reason some insecure individual is trying to railroad you. Gossip about you, cultivating new and improved vicious lies, sabotaging you anyway possible, or giving you as cold a shoulder as you'd feel if you lived in a fridge freezer. When someone is jealous of you and being vindictive, rather than expressing their admiration, it's shared in a warped abusive way, because their in a negative state of mind. Their not happ

The interviewers are so blaitantly aware this guy's out for his next dime. Although, good job on the book becoming a bestseller. Marketing is always the key